how to make friends i have none ..please help me
August 10, 2008 – 11:57 pmHello. I ‘m making this place as I don’t undergo where likewise start, when I was teen at edifice I had lots of friends and they were ever reaching over etc and as I got senior and had my possess kids I forfeited my friends along the artefact someways and today that I was dignosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and PTSD they meet did the criminal and didn’t poverty to be friends anymore I hit NO friends at every and don’t undergo what to do? I go to faith and hit occurrence that artefact but I rattling wouldn’t call them friends . I wager my ethnic miss and my psycharist erst a period but that is the exclusive occurrence I hit unconnected from my economise and kinsfolk so what do I do? How do I attain whatever pleasant friends? I hit MSN and met someone but she has Borderline likewise and rattling doesn’t speech to such How would you go most making someone friends I was sexually insulted and favour to attain someone friends as males makes me category of unconfutable Thanks in adavance Britney
One Response to “how to make friends i have none ..please help me”
I am sorry to hear about your problems. I can relate in my own way, since I suffer from long-term depression. In terms of socializing, an issue for me is that other people just don't understand psychological problems that well.
might mean well, but they throw out cliches like “Oh you'll get over it” or tell you to feel better by saying affirmations, etc. Sometimes, these cliches can have the reverse effect and make you feel worse, so you feel like saying “You just don't get it, do you?” I had a girlfriend with borderline personality disorder (BPD) plus serious drug abuse issues.
we met, she was no longer on drugs, but her BPD drove me crazy. We still are good friends, although the romantic relationship ended.
BPD, she would swing suddenly into angry outbursts for the slightest reason. A couple times, she actually punched her psychiatrist!! (I know, some people would think that's a good thing to do.) I live in NYC where I attend support groups for people with depression and bipolar disorder. It is great to share experiences with people who understand what you are going through. I wonder if there are groups like that where you live. However, it can be helpful to be with folks who live relatively “normal” lives so you are not always surrounded by others with similar issues as you. If possible, it is probably not too helpful to become too identified with the labels and experiences of BPD and PTSD.
all, you are a wife and mother. Besides support groups or even Anonymous type of meetings, I don't have a whole lot of “advice” to offer you. Mostly, I wanted to say you are not alone.
are others in similar situations.
my best.
By Phil P on Aug 11, 2008