Marrying a girl of my choice. I am in a long distance relationship and the girl and me both love each other.
August 12, 2008 – 1:00 amMy care is hunting for a woman for me on her own.uptill today i didnt verify her that i am sight whatever one. Because i dont undergo how to do that.
i am afeard that she tradition accept. Moreover the woman was mated before and has a kid.which makes modify worsened to persuad my care and not exclusive this the woman is from a totally assorted land but aforementioned relegion. I dont undergo what to do? I am rattling in a arduous situation. It is a category of in our culture.
dont i hit some correct to unite from my choice?
One Response to “Marrying a girl of my choice. I am in a long distance relationship and the girl and me both love each other.”
Asalaam Alaikum, I am an American woman married to an Egyptian man.we are both Muslim and his family wanted him to marry an Egyptian woman..his mother was always trying to set him up with her choice of wife, but he kept refusing.we lived apart for over a year before we got married.
have the right to choose your wife. If your mother objects you should say this to her: Mom..I love you and respect you and I know that you want me to be happy. I love this woman that I have chosen and I won't be as happy with anyone else. If you have grandchildren someday they should have parents that loved each other the most.not just second best.But your mom is trying to make life easy for you.
knows that when 2 cultures come together in marriage it gets difficult at times.you really need to think about that.
if you are both of the same religion, there will be different opinions.and some of these things will not appear until you are together side by side in person.
I converted to Islam I had a child.
parents accepted this after some time.and even began to realize that it means that I enjoy children..and want more someday.
is not true of every woman. I think his parents still wish he married an egyptian.because they are also afraid we will move away.you should reassure your parents that you won't take off all together with this girl and leave them missing you.
cultural differences don't apear clearly until it is in person.for example: It is normal in Egypt for a married man to go to a cafe at 11 or 12 at night to make some business arrangement, but in the usa most people would think it was suspicious behaviour.
mother knows that little things like this will be easily understood by a woman of your own culture.you should very carefuly consider if you have alot of patience for explaining all these things to your future wife, if she will accept such things, and if you can accept some of her culture or if she is willing to change her culture enough to make you comfortable.
By AMJ on Aug 12, 2008