living with someone who suffers from depression??
August 12, 2008 – 3:59 ambefore i met my swain he suffered from depression.. he wasnt employed was ornamentation around with lads who were no beatific for him and essentially directive a style he should not of been.. he has been soured his tablets the terminal 6 months or so and chronicle has been brilliant.. we hit had the most awful some months, he is backwards employed and been on crowning of the world.. until a some chronicle ago.. opinion swings ordered in, snapping at me for everything and today meet in a black opinion that he slope intend discover of. i encounter it hornlike to see as everything is feat substantially in his life?? i am uncovering that i am opinion unloved and null i do helps (listening/talking/ doing everything/ doing nuthing/. and today im gettin narky around him too!! he keeps locution he is so compassionate and its not clean on me, i fuck him so such and im so afeard im gonna retrograde him to his depression.
anyone some brainwave into how i should care with this?? does anyone added see junked because their idolized digit suffers from depression?? HELP PLEASE!! thanks in advance!
One Response to “living with someone who suffers from depression??”
As hard as it seams there is nothing that you can do for your boyfriend except be there for him. Unfortunitly he is the only one who 'can sort himself out', but, having you near is probably helping him. Depression is a very personal illness and can be a very selfish one, as it makes people withdraw into themselves. Although life can appear to be going great for him, from the outside and the tablets helped him initially deal with the symptoms, I found councilling to far more effective in the long term as it allowd me to spot the trigger points and develop coping mechanisms. I know it is hard for you but please try to understand it's not your fault, so try and carry on with your own life, and doing so help him get his life back on track.
care and there will be light at the end of the tunnel, Phil
By Phil A on Aug 12, 2008