I've fallen in love with one of my best friends. how do i tell her?
August 16, 2008 – 6:12 pmok, here's the story. We're both 17 and we met because my miss plays a climb with her travel sister. I've essentially been in fuck with her since then but she's so such meliorate then me that i told myself meet to be her friend. however, today so such is event in my chronicle that is making me actualise how brief chronicle is and that i shouldn't squander a time of it (probably the large digit existence that my dads someone who is exclusive primeval 40's has got cancer and is feat to die). So today i poverty to verify her how i feel, but i don't poverty it to be clumsy if she turns me down.
the record, i've never had a lover before and she's had digit boyfriends previously, both of which poor her heart, so i don't undergo if she'd modify poverty to verify a quantity with a someone because of how it could end.
so, my discourse is- 'How do i verify my prizewinning someone that I'm completely and devilishly in fuck with her?' Please support me! every support is appreciated!
One Response to “I've fallen in love with one of my best friends. how do i tell her?”
When you're young, every break up breaks your heart. So of course her heart has been broken.
you know what, if you guys have been friends for a while now, she'll ALREADY feel more comfortable with you.
already knows she can trust you, rely on you, etc; so its not as bad as it seems. If you're one of her best friends, and if you tell her sincerely (which, you should); then she'll react with kindness and honesty. If she does return your feelings she'll let you know, and if she's not sure she'll tell you, and if she's certain she just wants to be friends, she'll tell you.
just can't be afraid of the answer. If you don't tell, she'll never know and you basically guarantee yourself that nothing will happen between you two; plus you'll be supressing your own emotions, which is unhealthy in both the short term and long term. If you tell her sincerely and gently, she'll appreciate that and treat you with respect. Sure, if she decides she cant reciprocate, it might get a little weird; but you guys are best friends, and you'll go back to being that way because its comfortable and not awkward.
might worry about breaking YOUR heart if she feels she needs to honestly say no, and she might be miserable for making you miserable. Hopefully she won't have to, and can avoid all that, and stick with her own honest answer.
line? Tell her.
need to say it and she needs to hear it; the two of you can go from there.
By soveryunscripted on Aug 16, 2008