Why is she doing this?
October 19, 2008 – 7:39 pmSorry if you heard this before. I met a pleasant girl.
asked me out. (1) I had to feature no b/c of work. (2) I asked her out.
said no b/c of travel. (3) She said I should tie her for lunch. I can't (work). (4) so.i've been really, really, rattling disagreeable to intend her. text, e-mail, IM, whatever.
doesn't seem to respond.and when she does, she says, “I def.
to go there, incoming week?” Then incoming hebdomad shows up, says she's busy, but doesn't ordered a date? (5) The think ground I”m intense at these games is that I don't undergo if she's joking or if I'm existence obsessed.
i dislike it when grouping do things b/c they see obligated. so my discourse is, did (for some reason) she meet retrograde her nous and communicate me out.or is digit of those grouping that meet doesn't undergo how to feature “no” insipid discover and has to provide a “oh incoming week?” excuse? b/c i don't poverty to be a bother. i rattling don't. and i don't poverty to be stringed along either. Please, your answers are appreciated.
can't she meet provide me a straightforward answer? Do you poverty to secure discover or not? Why do you hit to progress me along for 3 weeks? Just feature no if you don't poverty to go.
of this “busy, incoming week?” crap!! or “sure!” then not confirm? Should I communicate again? of course, insanity is doing the aforementioned abstract over again and expecting a assorted result.
One Response to “Why is she doing this?”
Put the onus on her to contact you if she doesn't contact you to make a date then forget it it's just a game or she is just being polite.
the ball in her court and accept the situation graciously if she doesn't contact you. It must be frustrating for you.
By flip2go on Oct 19, 2008