What is wrong with being 18 or 19 and having a baby? why does everyone say get married first?
October 31, 2007 – 10:42 pmI am 19 and i am 24 weeks meaningful with a female boy. I am meet a rattling motherlike mortal and i hit desired to hit a female ever since i crapper remember. I hit been with my relation for 3 eld and we are engaged, we had a female because we fuck apiece another and are primed to hit a kinsfolk together. My relation is 23 and we both hit beatific jobs and a steady bag to wage for this baby.
i dont same it when grouping feature 19 is likewise teen to hit a baby, geezerhood is not everything, it depends on how grown you are and if you are mentally and financially confident of upbringing a baby!! I am so chesty to be a incommunicative and i slope move to wager my lowercase boy, i dont tending what anyone thinks or say's!! I fuck him and my relation with every my hunch and i couldnt be happier!! If your 19 and are most to embellish a parent and crapper provide there female or children a beatific chronicle WHY do they NEED to intend mated and be be over 21 to be a beatific parent? I dont see it and it's not same at 19 you are ease a baby!
One Response to “What is wrong with being 18 or 19 and having a baby? why does everyone say get married first?”
I know the looks and lectures you are getting.
from older people who think you whould be married and own a house.
the 20s-40s who are still out clubbing and drinking taking drugs who think that you are crazy to have a baby that young cause they think that partying is what everyone wants to do.
not true.
like you i had a son at 19 im now 21 and i still get the whole “oh your way to young to have children what were you thinking” and “where you trying to save your relationship” and “im 30 i couldnt imagine giving up my life for a baby” DONT WORRY ABOUT THEM i use to cry thinking that every one judging me and all that. I knew people were starring at my tummy and thinking “welfare baby” its the worst feeling when really i had the love of my life at home.
like you i was with my partner for 3years, we planned the baby, were never getting married and we rent.
WERE HAPPY! and thats all that matters.
could be a 15yr old mum and be a better mum then some 30yr old mums.
just depends on the indavidule.
dont need to be married to be happy or b a betta mum its just a piece of paper?? what dose it prove?? my son has every thing and is so loved and looked after, people are surprised that i “look after him” cause they thought i couldnt. It really hurt to hear it so when they offer to help i say NO, DONT NEED IT.
get me wrong my mum looks after him one day a week, but the people who made those comments i dont allow them to have a pleasure of proving that i need help “cause im still a baby”. You will be a great mum cause you have a loving parntner and you want to be a mum.
should be happy that your going to be a good mum and that your not dreeding it cause you wont be able to party any more!! a baby is much better then any party! its amazing to be a mummy and hug your lil boy and tell him mummy and daddy love you. so just try to ignore them a just consentrate on the look on there face when you turn out to be the best mum around. congradulations on having your son growing in side of you that you and your partner made with love.
ultimate gift of love.
dont need anymore prof then that!
By mummy on Nov 1, 2007